A bit of dating philosophy
Usually, when it comes to dating sites, we always have two sides of a coin.
On the one hand, it is a real life dating; on the other, it is a meetings though dating sites.
It is obvious, that we always compare the good and the bad in both sides, moreover, we thinking that these are the alternatives for each other.
This is completely wrong approach. The process of finding a date and the steps we make doing it can't be opposite to one another.
We have a dating process, which is most likely to happens in real life, and we have a preporatary steps in this process, which can be done on the dating site.
The site is for help, not for the replacement.
Вообще, по сути, этот ресурс правильнее называть не "сайт знакомств", а "сервис поиска партнёра", так как полноценного знакомства на нем быть не может.
Это только лишь инструмент, который автоматизирует предварительный этап, даёт вам больше вариантов кандидатур, ускоряет подбор и предоставляет площадку для предварительного контакта. А настоящее знакомство происходит потом, вне сайта.
In general, it’s more correct to call this resource not a "dating site", but a "partner search service", since there cannot be a full dating on it.
This is just a tool that automates the preliminary stage, gives you more options for candidates, speeds up the selection and provides a platform
for preliminary contact. And the real acquaintance happens later, outside the site.
Therefore, the question should not be posed as to which dating option to choose: in real life or online, but should be posed this way: to use or not to use a
modern tool on the network to prepare dating in real life. And this is up to you. We have a lot to deal with in everyday life.
You can type on a typewriter, or you can type text on a computer, you can mow it with a scythe, or you can use a lawn mower, you can wash the dishes
with your hands, or you can turn on the washer. This list goes on and on.
Also here, someone will be helped by new technologies, someone will not. Maybe you have such a large network of friends and acquaintances that they will organize a
nomination for you "by the recommendation". Or maybe you have such an impressive charisma that a large number of people are drawn to you.
Obviously, in these cases, the site is not needed. But it is also obvious that in other cases the question arises: why not use this chance?
So, attention to all supporters of dating "live" and, at the same time, opponents of online meetings - no one takes your acquaintances and meetings in real life!
An assistant is simply offered to you, which makes it possible to get a large audience reach, better prepare for your real meetings, and reduce possible failures.
Even if something goes wrong on the site, it is important to know that this is just a preparatory stage for starting a meeting, it is non-binding data exchange.
All the most important will happen offline. Bring acquaintance there as quickly as possible!